Happening _ Love _ 特別特別送給特別的妳們

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To my BFFs - TT, AS and GL, you are the sweeties and warmest girls I have ever met in my life. 

Be your best lover. Someone might see you loving yourself and be jealous.

I read this quote in the Man Repeller article, and I thought it was great. Super Sex and the City-ish:)  “Just do you. And it will come.” Repeat to self. Just do you. Repeat again. I know it sounds super simple in words, but in reality … it’s super duper hard. I KNOW GALS, I TRUELY KNOW…ESPECIALLY IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT.

Personally, I tease the people I like, and that special person never gets mad. Anything you say, whatever you find funny, will bring out a smile and laughter. When you’re sad, they can relate, they feel your pain like a cut on their own skin. Around them, I can be a free bird, growing like roots and branches in an open house. When I talk to them, I don’t have to pretend, or try and impress them. They ask quality questions, not just to keep the conversation going, but because they really want to get to know you.

Carrie Bradshaw once said, “The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself.” That’s a line that will stick with me forever. Listen to me, my friends, Stop falling for losers and instead never stop falling in love with the things that drive your every passion, your every whim, your every belief. Those things should be number one from the beginning. Those are your strengths. 

Once you are ready, someone special like that, they’ll always find their way to you.